Written by Kelly Loo
As an afterlife planner at Nirvana Memorial Garden Singapore, I have the privilege of meeting many families, each with their unique stories and journeys. One family that particularly touched my heart was the Lees.
The Lees were a typical Singaporean family, warm and close-knit. Mr. Lee was the head of the family, a man who had always placed his family’s well-being above everything else. He was a loving husband, a devoted father, and a doting grandfather. As he grew older, he started to think deeply about the future and the legacy he would leave behind.
One day, Mr. Lee walked into my office, a thoughtful expression on his face. “I’ve been thinking about something important,” he said. “I want to ensure that my family is taken care of, even after I’m gone. I don’t want them to worry about anything.”
We sat down and talked about his options. Mr. Lee wanted to plan his afterlife arrangements in a way that reflected his love and care for his family. He wanted them to remember him with fondness and not be burdened by the stress and financial strain that can come with unexpected events.
Together, we designed a plan that provided the peace of mind he sought. Mr. Lee chose a package that ensured everything would be taken care of, from the funeral arrangements to the smallest details. He wanted his family to have the space to grieve and heal, free from the burden of logistics and expenses.
A few years later, Mr. Lee passed away peacefully. When I received the call from Mrs. Lee, I felt a deep sense of gratitude for having known such a thoughtful and caring man.
The funeral we arranged for Mr. Lee was held in one of our beautifully decorated halls, filled with elegant floral arrangements and serene ambiance. The setup, which included a tastefully decorated altar and seating area for guests, reflected the warmth and love Mr. Lee had for his family.
During the ceremony, the atmosphere was calm and respectful. Family and friends gathered to pay their respects in a space designed to provide comfort and solace.
The Buddhist setup honored Mr. Lee’s cultural practices, adding a sense of peace and spirituality to the event.
We also provided a special corner with refreshments for the guests, ensuring everyone felt taken care of during this difficult time.
Mr. Lee’s funeral procession was dignified and respectful, with our premium hearse leading the way. The sight of the beautiful Maserati hearse, carrying Mr. Lee’s casket, left a lasting impression on everyone present.
Mrs. Lee later told me, with tears in her eyes, “He gave us the greatest gift. He gave us peace of mind and the ability to grieve without worry.”
Sharing the story of the Lees always reminds me of the profound impact of planning ahead. To my fellow Singaporeans and Permanent Residents, planning for the afterlife while you are still alive is one of the most loving and thoughtful things you can do for your family. It’s about giving them the gift of peace and security, allowing them to remember you with love and not worry.
Start your afterlife planning today. I am Kelly Loo, and I am here to help you create a lasting legacy of love and peace for your family. Because every moment you spend planning now is a moment of worry you save for them in the future.
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