Written by Min Fung, Chang and Dreamer
The Power of Time
Time is a powerful entity, one that we often take for granted. It is the silent witness to our lives, ticking away in the background, marking our joys and sorrows. In another world where marriages are based on renewal contracts, time takes on a new meaning. It becomes a measure of commitment, a testament to love.
I am a marriage registrar. In the world of marriage contracts, I’ve seen it all. I’ve witnessed the joy of couples embarking on their journey together, and the sorrow of those who part ways. But one story stands out, a tale that has profoundly changed my perspective on love and commitment.
The Annual Celebration of Love
Every year, when I visit the elderly couple, I am reminded of the power of love. Their annual renewal is not just a formality, but a celebration of their love. Each year, the husband goes out of his way to make his wife feel special, to remind her of their shared history, their shared love. It’s a beautiful reminder that love is not just about the big moments, but also about the small, everyday gestures. Despite the option to sign for ten or even twenty years, they choose to renew annually. The reason? The wife has dementia and loses track of time. So, her husband woos her anew each year, proposing again to give her the happiest day of her life, every single year.
A Registrar’s Struggle
As a registrar, I’ve seen the highs and lows of love. I’ve seen couples bicker over the length of their contracts, allowing trivial matters to overshadow their love for each other. It’s heartbreaking to see relationships crumble over such minor issues. It made me question the essence of spending time together. Is it just about fulfilling a contract, or is there more to it? Is the time spent together merely a formality, or does it hold a deeper meaning?
The Hundred-Year Contract
One day, the old man made an unusual request. He wanted a hundred-year contract, the first I’d ever drawn up. When I asked him why, his answer left me speechless. His wife had less than a year to live, and he wanted to be with her again in the next life. The hundred-year contract was a revelation. It showed me that commitment is not just about being together in this life, but about wanting to be together in every life. The old man’s request was a testament to his undying love for his wife, a love that transcended time and space.
The Answer
Their story touched me so deeply that it changed my perspective on love and commitment. It made me realize that time is not just a measure of duration but a testament to love. It’s not about how long we spend together, but how we spend that time. With this newfound understanding, I ran to my girlfriend, Xiao Tong, ready to give her my answer. “I do,” I told her. “Time is our best contract.” It’s not about the length of the contract, but the depth of our commitment. It’s about cherishing each moment, making every second count.
The Symbol of Love
A Solvil et Titus watch is not just a timepiece. It’s a symbol of love and commitment. It serves as a reminder to cherish every moment and make every second count. Just like the elderly couple, let’s embrace the opportunity to cherish time and celebrate love. After all, it’s not about the duration of the contract, but the depth of the commitment. A Solvil et Titus watch represents this enduring commitment. Let’s make every second count.
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